You have to learn that just because the opportunity is there it doesn’t always mean it needs to be taken. Remember the devil knows your soft spots just like God does…he thrives off pulling you out of God’s process of faith/patience & presenting you with temporary satisfactions.
Like shorty in the movie Temptation. God blessed her with a loving husband who took care of her, loved her, respected her, someone she even knew! was good for her. But then she started to compare what she already had to what SEEMED to be…well, better & (you can google the ending).
Point is…USUALLY God will end something before He blesses you with something new, something better. So don’t be quick to make “better” decisions on your own just to end up with nothing. You gotta know nothing you decide by yourself will ever be better than what God has in store for you.
Be content in the now…and just KEEP PRAYING!
People gotta learn to ask God the way they ask Twitter.